Is it a “fear of failure” on the child’s side or on the parents’ side? Website design By BotEap.comIf this student is well aware of his own potential in advance, is well equipped with the objective information about the career, parents and child mutually select the path that the child will follow in the future and will prosper in an all-round way, then this competition will not will swallow more life.
Is it really the fear of failure?
Website design By BotEap.comAs the exam is now over for the 12th std and will end for the 10th std, the media and the newspaper will carry the news of the Suicide committed by the student of 10th Std and 12th Std. Under the heading of fear of failure. My question for everyone, is it really “fear of failure” or lack of self-awareness, own ability and poor self-concept development?
Website design By BotEap.comOnce the student had started with the year that is called the defining year in anyone’s life, suddenly the focus totally shifts to only one aspect of the student’s personality and that is, he just studies, nothing else remains. to get good grades in your life. constantly under the close surveillance of parents, society, and now also added pressure from the media. They each have a very genuine reason for being concerned about themselves and their future. Students act like Robert all the time running from one class to another class, if not class, then on some tuition, homework, solving questions from different years, from class, and many parents also ask them some questions and they are all time doing class work, or homework for tuition is like 24 * 7 all the time studying and if they don’t do it it’s not accepted by their parents the ‘should’ and ‘should’ are so strong that they create the very narrow boundaries around the student that they cannot cross until they rebel against their parents.
Website design By BotEap.comEveryone is dyed in a single color, the color of berthing, solving papers and doing nothing but study. The parent uses standard 10 and standard 12 as a reason for not attending the social gathering, any family function, if by any chance they make any adjustments, they have attended the function, the only question the student is asked is how are the studies going? That with a list of solutions about what to do and what not to follow, as if the whole personality of a student is just to be a student who enjoys something, it is treated as a sin committed by the student because the reason is “all life is to be enjoyed”. so hang on to that” it’s an unwritten rule that “you have to get good grades” the total worth of a student comes down to just the percentage of the student who gets the final exam there’s nothing else left in your idea of self-concept all this is just a race to get good grades How far a student can go in the competition.
Website design By BotEap.comWe are worried about the asteroid coming and colliding with the earth and it will destroy the earth in 2036 but the near destruction we are causing our future generation is simply overlooked if the trend continues then we may not have a good human race to live. until 2036. I feel that the generation we are raising today has become just a student, their childhood has taken over the student neighborhood in the whole student neighborhood game, each one is more of a loser every time I see the generation that just passed your standard 10 and 12 I could easily identify this situation with a horse race when everyone focuses on a single quality of the hoarse voice, that is, running, running until the last breath of his life and, paradoxically, running not for you but because others want you to run. you feel that we are doing the same with our children. They are also running in a race of ambition created by the parents, running without a purpose decided by them with no idea what to achieve after coming first or winning the race, many of them win the race but not all of them are capable of doing it. be a winner throughout the race.
Website design By BotEap.comEveryone who was paying attention to them all along is now coming back to them, everyone is now empty for them, no one is theirs to listen to and so far never exposed to any other skills from their own studies. unique and most important aspect of your life. Now suddenly there is a total change in the whole scenario, life has gone meaningless and he finds himself worthless, so unable to cope with society that the poor child is not able to handle, and finally he “commits suicide”.
Is it a “fear of failure” on the child’s side or on the parents’ side? Website design By BotEap.comIf this student is well aware of his own potential in advance, is well equipped with the objective information about the career, parents and child mutually select the path that the child will follow in the future and will prosper in an all-round way, then this competition will not will swallow more life.
Is it a “fear of failure” on the child’s side or on the parents’ side? Website design By BotEap.comIf this student is well aware of his own potential in advance, is well equipped with the objective information about the career, parents and child mutually select the path that the child will follow in the future and will prosper in an all-round way, then this competition will not will swallow more life.